In a free society why won't people accept me for who I am--non-traditional spiritualist?

I don't believe in organized religion but have my own beliefs. My beliefs are kind of a mixture of Taoism and science with life experience. And I'm accepting of others beliefs but am margialized by society. I have a hard time making friends and can't find a girlfriend to save my life. The religious friends I have or have had eventually distance themselves from me. We are supposed to live in a free country so why is it like this you think?